Thursday, June 07, 2007
WHAT A WEEK!
Cleo had been saying for months that she wanted to make her prom dress (uh huh). Her ideas were great actually but I just knew (like mom's do) that it either wouldn't happen or if it got that far it would probably not look EXACTLY the way she wanted. I can sew some but she has basically only made boxers in sewing class a few yrs ago lol. I have no doubts however that some day she could pull off anything she puts her mind to. She already tweaks her own clothes with handsewing and original changes as it is.
I took matters into my own hands...given prom is 3 weeks away..I didn't want to handle a panick stricken daughter and myself with nothing to wear at the last minute. I looked up some goth stores in Montreal and found a gold mine. Told her that we would be going out saturday to get stuff for her dress (purposely letting her think it was probably for fabrics etc)
We went into Montreal and arrived smack infront of CRUELLA'S.... Cleo was like....wow...what are we doing here? All while sporting an awe struck look of wonder at this STORE of STORES... Even I was totally inpressed by this store, very goth, but very full of absolutely gorgeous clothing. I then informed her we were going to BUY her a dress...something she will totally love and be happy to wear. I want HER to feel special and beautiful for her prom.
Isn't that the point? It's a right of passage...once in a lifetime experience. I think every girl should feel like a princess and special for their prom. No matter what their *style*. Hense making my daughter exstatic by bringing her to this goth store.
We found a few different dresses. She looked great in all but one I found, looked fabulous and just the look on her face when she came out of the changing room was enough to know it was the one. Huge smile..and total femme fetal in that number let me tell u. My *baby* is tall, slender and sexy and all woman in this dress. There was no going back lol.
It's black ofcourse lol. Hugs her body all the way down then below the knee's it flares out. Classic cut really but with a gothic twist. To add to that we got her the high sheer black gloves to above the elbows..no fingers, just looped on the middle finger but the design on these gloves is spider webs. We got the stockings to match. We also got a similar short cape for her shoulders with a hood. It goes to her elbows. We also picked out an awesome choker that has a few red jems on it. The shoes she wanted are red and black with some lace on them. She had seen them elsewhere last yr and loved them ever since. We were lucky to find them in a store down the street.
The red will be repeated in her hair also. Having her hair recolored next week same time as me before my vacation. So her's will be black and red similar to what she had for my wedding. The girl who does our hair is awesome, and she will be doing Cleo's hair the day of the prom ...something funky like she had for my wedding.
I know Cleo can put herself all together with no help from me. She does a great job of that daily anyway. Something I am gratefull for as I will be in Chicago the day of the prom. Her dad will be going to the parents cocktails just before the prom but after that parents are not to be seen ofcourse lol. I have no doubts she will have a great time and her date is a good friend of hers so no romantic drama either just alot of fun.
I am just glad I (and Chris) have done all the footwork...got her everything she needs...booked the hair appointments, made sure the corsage and guys flowers are ordered to match her outfit (black and red) etc..I know some think it should be the guy to get her something but it's not a bf and frankly it's not done as much anymore like in my day I think.
I am thrilled for her and know she will be beautiful and feel beautiful. I guess for me, having not graduated or had a prom I just want my daughter to enjoy hers to the fullest.
That said, there will be proffesional photos taken there and her dad will be taking pics also so I will post them for sure.
So all saturday was taken up doing the prom stuff...then Cleo gives us the school camping list sunday...oh yeah and the camping trip is Thursday mom.
Omg...longer then my arm, all the things she needs to pack for her 3 day camping trip with her * outdoors* class this yr. Luckily when she was in scouts yrs ago, we had some good gear. I still had to rush around this week getting all the other stuff she needed...and then getting her dad to go shopping with her after school and his work to get the only 2 things left on the list that she needed to be there for...oy vey!! He bitches about every single dollar...I had to remind him that she never shops, never asks for anything..so once in a blue moon when she needs or wants something, we have go grab it while we can. She is not one of those kids who is at the mall, always wanting to buy clothes etc. I had to again remind him that what ever we do get that she likes, even if some cost abit more, she wears them till they are thread bare.
So late lastnight...her packsack was finally all loaded and adjusted. Ready to go this morning for 3 days in the bush with about 20 other classmates. It's been grey all day but should be nice tomorrow and sat...I know they will have a great time. She gets home saturday late afternoon...and Sunday she has her piano recital.
Basically after that, we can all breath. She has a few exams left but the big reports she had were done this week.
I have pretty much got most of my shopping done for my trip also...presents for the kids and our hosts. I have been going through my closet and putting things aside to give. Thankfully I have altered some things as I have no desire to buy clothes to only have to alter them again down the road.
This Saturday is our 1st Wedding Anniversary! Time sure has flown by. We have so much to do sat, with groceries and last minute stuff that we will just have dinner in a nice resturant..we usually do that on saturdays anyway but we will go to a nicer one we love that we don't go to often. No presents...we can shop in Chicago lol. It's also Chris' bday the following saturday...but we are leaving the next day sunday for Chicago so like he said, if he see's something he likes there, we can get him that for his bday.
I have been writting lists of things that need to be done with Cleo's prom, our vacation, the whole menu for the time we are away for the sitter as she will be stuck here for 9 days. I can't leave anything out. She can take walks with Luc in the wheelchair etc but I don't want her to need for anything...also money incase she needs something I may have missed etc. It's so nice to be able to leave with them in capable hands but there is so much preparation to be able to do so. Not to mention just putting aside the money to pay her when we get back.
I can't wait! I can't wait!
Monday, June 04, 2007
DOCTOR'S VISITS, MINE AND MY DOG'S
I went for my 2nd surgery followup in Montreal today. Waited around for 2 hours to spend all of 10 minutes with the doc. Isn't that almost always the way lol. He was very happy with my progress, said my weight loss was excellent. (54lbs lost) Made sure I was taking all my vitamins etc. I told him about my hairloss and he agreed totally with what my own research suggested. I need alot more protein...I am not getting enough. Once I improve that, my hairloss will slowdown and I will help also start taking the silica complex to help with that and the regrowth. It's all good. I don't have to go back for 6 months now YAY!
I did however meet a few nice women while there that had the surgery, all at different times. Hope to keep in touch by email.
Now for my baby Shinoo, our shitzu the bigger of my 2 dogs. She really hurt herself. She was in the yard and came in crying and not able to put weight on her front paw. We could see some blood but couldnt figure out if she was cut between her paw pads or not but could hardly touch her it hurt so much. We sprayed disinfectant all over her paw and carried her to bed hoping she would feel better the next day since it was late at night.
Next morning wasn't better. Chris took her to the vet. Together they looked all over her paw through the fur and could finally tell on of her claws was sticking out longer. Apparently she must have snagged her claw on something and yanked it away. By doing that she totally dislodged her claw...no wonder she was in so much pain! Since it was out more then the others, when she tryed putting her paw down..the claw touched first and hurt even more by moving it more. The vet kept her there so she could take xrays to make sure. So she would know exactly where to cut the claw. She said she would have to go inside to cut it where it needed. It may not grow back or may grow back funky but it needed to be removed regardless. So Chris picked her up the next morning early, with pain meds and antibiotics in hand. She has a paw all bandaged up poor thing....I had visions of little doggy crutches lol.
She was so happy to be home, and even happy to see Clochette who I am sure missed her alot. She will be on meds for awhile and we remove her bandage in a few days. She still favors that foot alot. I had to post a cpl pics of her booboo bandage lol.
Friday, June 01, 2007
PROUD MOM WITH TEAR FILLED EYES
Well, its finally done, Cleo is graduated. Tonight was the ceremony and as much as I knew I would be somewhat emotional...I had no idea I would have to choke down a torrid of tears lol. I was very moved but the whole thing. The ROCKY theme song when they started to file into the auditorium got me right away...it was very fitting. I had to keep swallowing my need to cry like a baby. I thankfully had lots of kleenex to dab my eyes with to not mess up my makeup to bad lol. Oy Vey we are such wusses at times.
Her dad (Michel) was there with Chris and I, he chuckled at my emotions a few times. Chris had kleenex at the ready for me lol. Always my hero lol.
Here she is. These pics say it all.
Cleo is the one with the blonde black hair.
Front row, second from left..adjusting her cap just as photo is taken OFCOURSE!
THE CAP THROW!! WHOOOOO HOOOOO